Ukulalana ephusheni kowesifazane ohlukanisile

• Ukubona ubulili ephusheni lowesifazane ohlukanisile kubonisa ukuthi uzozama inhlanhla futhi emshadweni maduzane.
• Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ebona owayengumyeni wakhe elala naye ephusheni, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi izinto zizoba ngcono phakathi kwabo futhi bazobuyelana futhi.
• Lapho owesifazane ohlukanisile ebona ukulala nesihlobo ephusheni, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uyameseka ngokwezimali futhi uzama ukumnika konke akufunayo.
• Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ebona ubulili nomngane ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukwesekwa nosizo aluthola kuye kuzo zonke izikhathi ezinzima adlula kuzo.
• Ukubona owesifazane ohlukanisile elala nomuntu amaziyo ephusheni kukhomba ukuthi uzonqoba ubunzima obuthile obuzophazamisa impilo yakhe isikhathi esithile.
• Owesifazane ohlukanisile elala nomuntu angamazi ephusheni kubonisa ukushabalala kosizi nokucindezeleka kwakhe, okuzombeka esimweni esingcono.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokulala ephusheni kowesifazane ongashadile nomthandi wakhe

• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi ilala nesithandwa sayo ephusheni, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi izolinyazwa futhi ilinyazwe ngabaseduze kwayo, futhi kufanele ibe nesibindi ibayeke ukuze ingaphinde ihlukumezeke.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi uyenqaba ukulala nesithandwa sayo ephusheni, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuzinikela kwayo, ukuhlanzeka kwenhliziyo yayo, nokushisekela kwayo ukusondela kuNkulunkulu ngezenzo ezinhle.
• Ukubona intombazane ikhala ngesikhathi sokulala nomthandi wayo ephusheni ifanekisela ukubandakanyeka kwakhe endabeni enkulu kanye nokungakwazi ukuyinqoba, okumenza azizwe ecasukile.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi yesaba ngenxa yokulala kwesithandwa sayo ephusheni, lokhu kusho ukuthi inethemba lokuthola into ethile ezoqedela injabulo yakhe.
• Ukubona intombazane yenza ucansi nomthandi wayo emgwaqeni ephusheni kufanekisela ukukhululeka, ukukhululeka okukhulu, nokuthuthukiswa kwesimo sakhe esingokwengqondo.
• Intombazane izibona yenza ucansi nesithandwa sayo emathuneni kukhombisa isidingo sokuyeka izenzo ezimbi ezenzayo bese iphenduka kuNkulunkulu.
• Ukubuka intombazane yenza ucansi nesithandwa sayo endaweni eyihlane ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi idinga usizo kulabo abaseduze kwayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kokulala nesithandwa endlini yomndeni wami kowesifazane oyedwa

• Ukubona intombazane yenza ubulili nesithandwa sayo ekhaya lomndeni wakubo ephusheni ifanekisela uchungechunge lwezinkinga nobunzima obuzomenza angakwazi ukuxazulula noma iyiphi indaba futhi amise impilo yakhe.
• Uma intombazane izibona yenza ucansi nesithandwa sayo phambi komndeni wayo ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ihamba endleleni yobumnyama nenkohlakalo, futhi kufanele iyeke ukwenza lezi zinto.
• Lapho intombazane ibona ukuthi yenqaba ukulala nesithandwa sayo endlini yabazali bayo ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukushisekela kwayo ukwenza izenzo ezinhle nokusondela kuNkulunkulu.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi uzizwa esaba ngenxa yokuthi isithandwa sakhe senza ucansi endlini yabazali bakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzobhekana nenkinga encane yezempilo, kodwa uzokwazi ukululama ngokushesha.
• Lapho intombazane ibona isithandwa sayo senqaba ukulala naye endlini yabazali bayo ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uyithanda ngempela futhi uhlose ukushada nayo, nokuthi uNkulunkulu uzokwenza lokho kube lula kuye.
• Uma owesifazane ebona isithandwa sakhe sikhala ngesikhathi sokulala naye endlini yabazali bakhe ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ubhekene nobunzima obuthile ezifundweni zakhe, okwenza amamaki akhe abe mabi Kumele afune usizo kwabanye ozakwabo ukuze bamsize.
• Intombazane ezwa ubuhlungu lapho isithandwa sayo silala naso endlini yabazali bayo kubonisa ukuthi idinga ukubekezela nokuzola lapho yenza izinqumo ukuze ingangeni ezinkingeni.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokulala nesihlobo sowesifazane oshadile

• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ukuthi ulala noyise ephusheni, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uzothola ubuhle obukhulu ngaye obuzoba negalelo ekuthuthukiseni impilo yakhe nomyeni wakhe.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ezibona elala nelinye lamalungu omndeni wakhe ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuba ngcono kwesimo sakhe futhi ebusiswa ngemali eningi ezoba negalelo ekuthuthukiseni izinga labo lokuphila.
• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile elala nomfowabo omdala ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi uhlala naye futhi uzimisele ukuba eceleni kwakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ezibona elala nomunye wamalungu omndeni wakhe ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa amandla obudlelwane phakathi kwabo empeleni.
• Owesifazane oshadile ezibona enza ucansi nelinye lamalungu omndeni wakhe phambi komyeni wakhe bese esabela ephusheni kukhombisa isihe nothando olukhulu analo ngakuye nokunamathela kwakhe okukhulu kuye.

Ukuphupha ulala nomuntu ongaziwa, ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin

• Ukubona ubulili ephusheni kufanekisela umphuphi ukufeza imigomo namaphupho akhe ngemva kokuhlela nokufunda kahle.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi ilala nomlingani wayo ephusheni, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi unemizwa eminingi emihle ngaye futhi uzama ngangokunokwenzeka ukumnikeza konke akufisayo.
• Uma intombazane izibona yenza ubulili nomunye wezihlobo zayo ezishonile ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi udinga umuntu ozomthandazela futhi anikeze umusa egameni lakhe.
• Uma owesifazane ezibona elala nezinceku noma izigqila ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukukhululeka nokuthuthukiswa kwezimo zakhe ngemva kwesikhathi esinzima adlule kuso.
• Uma intombazane izibona yenza ubulili nenye intombazane ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ingena esikhathini esibi esingokwengqondo ngenxa yezindlela eziyisigwegwe ezithathayo.
• Uma intombazane izibona yenza ubulili nomuntu ephikisana naye ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa imizamo yakhe yokulungisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwabo nempumelelo yakhe ekwenzeni lokho.